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25yr closeted bi guy that enjoys both teams but this blog is to show my biggest intrest in men. I'm mostly into Hairy guys, uncut guys, husky guys, manly guys, guys with long foreskin, small hairy cocks,average hairy cocks, big hairy cocks, cocks with tight foreskin(phimosis) hairy ass hairy holes........just really hairy men lol so don't get to butt hurt when I tell you I'm only interested in hairy men and not shaven guyz, you may see a shaven cock here and there but thats because it is uncut so that wwould be the only way I'll be interested in a shaven guy he would have to be uncut with long foreskin or phimosis, but anyway enjoy my blog and my interest in men and yes I do love submissions :) just have what I'm looking for
I think it’s really unfortunate that there are people in our community like this guy who clearly don’t “get” what’s being talked about with the racism of gay men online. As usual he is making a claim that he can’t be racist because he is (or claims to be) friends with people of non-white ethnicities; and that what he is describing here is a just sexual preference/attraction and therefore not a racial prejudice.
His belligerent attitude towards people who are trying to point out the problem with the language he uses makes it almost impossible to get through to males like him. On top of this, he is clearly quite arrogant, which also makes discussion with people like him too difficult to try: for every person who has an issue with his language, there will be 10 other ignorant white gay males propping him up, agreeing with him, and throwing their bottoms on the table in the desperate hope that he will top them silly.
I don’t think he understands that no one is actually criticising him for having sexual tastes. Even if those tastes are predicated on a racist system that bombards us from birth with images of white people and equates them with universalised attractiveness, the fact remains that his sexual tastes have become part of himself over time and there’s very little that can be done to change them. So no one is really arguing that being attracted to only white men makes this person a racist.
As usual, the problem with his attitude isn’t his sexual tastes, but his language. He might try to dismiss statements such as this as “stupid comments about racism”, but as anyone with any background in the studying of racism knows, there’s a long and comprehensive tradition of analysis regarding invisible whiteness, white privilege, institutionalised/systemic racism, and micro aggressive behaviours that prove this person, and all those like him, wrong.
The fact is, if he isn’t attracted to a person, regardless of their race, he simply can ignore them online, or say thanks, no thanks, and that’s the end of the story. Anyone who has a problem with him after that has their own issues to deal with. The fact is, if he didn’t write WHITES ONLY on his profile, he would be absolutely no worse off in anyway. The fact is, no harm would come to him if he just focused on traits that do not so obviously cause offence to others.
Saying WHITES ONLY is the exact same thing as saying NO BLACKS or NO ASIANS or NO JEWS. Yes he may be stating a sexual preference, but by doing so in this way, he is refusing to acknowledge (despite clearly knowing that people find it offensive) the harm statements like this pose to people of colour. Psychologically his language serves to reinforce their difference, their ostracism, their lack of sexual currency in our community, and this has a very negative effect on their sense of self and well being. This is something white gay men do not have to deal with in the west, and it would really serve them well if they could just stand in another’s shoes for even a minute and experience what it’s like to feel such public rejection on such public forums - particularly coming from people within an already despised minority.
This man’s language is unacceptable. For someone claiming to be so masculine, so self assured, and so together, a little respect would go a long, long way. He can dismiss these arguments but in doing so he is only showing the fragility of his own ego at having being challenged: something many white gay men struggle with in a world that tends to throw itself at their feet and cry “anything you say master”.
To conclude: this persons life would not change if he removed the racial aspects of his language online. He would not suddenly be overwhelmed with messages from non-whites, and he would not find himself in a situation where he would be forced against his will into sexual encounters with non-whites. And on the positive side of things, he would be doing his entire community a valuable service in not perpetuating publicly the myth that whites are hotter than any other colour. Hopefully one day his arrogance on this issue subsides to understanding and respect for the people he is so blatantly, and deliberately, offending.